Thanks again  Ellen! It never even occured to me that trying to set some sort of standard could be interpeted as price fixing. It is tough being  a small company and keep up with what is going on and making honorable decisions that you know will affect someone else and their business. Obviously there is no solution to this issue but Ellen is correct that it helps to have somewhere to discuss these things. Many of us are 1-2 people operations and this at least gives us contact and feedback with other businesses like ours.