Hello Judy,

It may not be my place to interject here, but it seems to me that Jay and Kevin intended to help you in their replies to your post.  I read your post this morning (Thursday) and suspected, as they did, that it might be a scam.  There was no indication given at that time that the email was forwarded to you by a customer.

I don't know, maybe some of us are just more cynical than others.  But predatory behavior does follow tragic events.  Jay and Kevin stepped up to try to warn you of that possibility when others, such as I, had the same suspicions but opted to remain quiet and not take a stand either way.  They ought to be thanked along with those who replied in a manner more agreeable to you.

This reply is not meant to be combative, just another opinion--for what it's worth. 

All The Best,

Patrick Scott