george:

Your analogy is flawed because car dealers and other businesses do not "gang up" on a consumer, repeatedly posting in a public forum on the internet and asking the same question over and over.

If your questions have not been answered to your satisfaction, then you are free to decide whether or not to do business with someone.  I'm an abstractor trying to make a living, too, but at least I have the common decency to use a bit of discretion in gathering the information I use to make my decisions.

You ought to try it some time.

Regards,
Scott