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American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Cheryl O'Brien/VA
10/3/2007 7:02:27 PM (3350 views)
Re: American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Loretta Reed/MD
10/3/2007 9:45:13 PM (4166 views)
Re: American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Glenda Hodge/TN
10/4/2007 2:27:58 AM (4419 views)
Re: American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Loretta Reed/MD
10/4/2007 8:44:37 AM (4045 views)
Re: American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Glenda Hodge/TN
10/5/2007 2:15:19 AM (3733 views)
Re: American Freedom Assurance, Inc. - Sheila Sten/PA
10/11/2007 9:20:16 AM (3562 views)

More Acceptance of Mediocraty - Anita Backlund/MN
10/3/2007 4:35:50 PM (4223 views)
Re: More Acceptance of Mediocrity - Anita Backlund/MN
10/3/2007 4:36:40 PM (3928 views)

"PAST DUE!" Stamp - Robert Franco/OH
10/3/2007 10:48:42 AM (3331 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Patrick Tarr/NE
10/3/2007 1:24:44 PM (4251 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Robert Franco/OH
10/3/2007 2:17:28 PM (3912 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Wendi See/SC
10/3/2007 4:23:01 PM (4309 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Scott Perry/PA
10/3/2007 5:13:34 PM (4397 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Faith Burns/MD
10/4/2007 10:37:39 AM (3841 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - SHARON YAHRAES/ID
10/4/2007 7:16:04 PM (3457 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Robert Franco/OH
10/4/2007 7:45:30 PM (3553 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - SHARON YAHRAES/ID
10/4/2007 8:48:42 PM (3505 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Wendi See/SC
10/5/2007 12:19:07 PM (3752 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Jessica Obitz/MD
10/4/2007 9:30:01 AM (3667 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Loretta Reed/MD
10/4/2007 10:19:24 AM (4148 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Robert Franco/OH
10/4/2007 2:28:57 PM (3893 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Vikki Moffitt/GA
10/4/2007 3:23:36 PM (3680 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Kevin Ahern/CT
10/5/2007 12:22:16 PM (3821 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Loretta Reed/MD
10/5/2007 12:42:58 PM (3492 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Kevin Ahern/CT
10/5/2007 12:56:05 PM (3498 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Jean Allen/NC
10/8/2007 9:58:52 AM (3487 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Janis Talbot/SC
10/8/2007 8:23:41 PM (3574 views)
UPDATE - Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Robert Franco/OH
10/9/2007 1:12:34 PM (3772 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Cheryl O'Brien/VA
10/15/2007 10:58:17 AM (3484 views)
Re: "PAST DUE!" Stamp - Dorothy Payne/NY
10/20/2007 9:42:34 PM (3384 views)

Follow Up to....Life is Cheap - Kevin Ahern/CT
10/3/2007 7:17:17 AM (2397 views)

ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - mason haas/NY
10/2/2007 10:36:25 AM (3208 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - ML/PA/PA
10/2/2007 11:45:09 AM (3895 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - Anita Backlund/MN
10/2/2007 6:57:15 PM (4056 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - mason haas/NY
10/3/2007 6:48:32 AM (4007 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - Vikki Moffitt/GA
10/4/2007 3:28:08 PM (3663 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - Greg/VA
10/15/2007 7:03:40 PM (3409 views)
Re: ESS a/k/a Equity settlement - Ron & Sandra Clark/VA
10/17/2007 7:07:23 PM (3380 views)




Makes you smile - Jay Duncan/MO
10/2/2007 9:05:19 AM (3041 views)
Re: Makes you smile - Robert Franco/OH
10/2/2007 9:49:02 AM (3667 views)
Re: Makes you smile - Sandra Morton/KS
10/3/2007 5:49:27 PM (3882 views)
Re: Makes you smile - Janis Talbot/SC
10/8/2007 8:25:49 PM (3692 views)
Re: Makes you smile - Scott Perry/PA
10/3/2007 10:08:44 PM (3961 views)

Real T Solutions - Cherie Smurthwaite/CA
10/1/2007 10:26:12 PM (3131 views)
Re: Real T Solutions - Irene Guntensperger/MD
7/23/2018 12:09:26 PM (1884 views)

Four Keys... - Wendi See/SC
10/1/2007 8:08:46 PM (4191 views)
Re: Four Keys... - Jessica Talley/NJ
10/1/2007 8:22:05 PM (4718 views)
Re: Four Keys... - Scott Perry/PA
10/1/2007 8:28:17 PM (4518 views)
Re: Four Keys... - Patrick Scott/IL
10/1/2007 9:53:43 PM (4428 views)
Re: Four Keys... - Ben Kohnen/WI
10/2/2007 9:26:00 AM (3732 views)
Re: Four Keys... - Michael O'Brien/NJ
10/15/2007 5:46:49 PM (3294 views)

Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Alix Ott/MI
10/1/2007 5:52:07 PM (3103 views)
Re: Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Jay Duncan/MO
10/1/2007 6:15:10 PM (4330 views)
Re: Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Jessica Talley/NJ
10/1/2007 8:26:17 PM (4745 views)
Re: Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Alix Ott/MI
10/2/2007 8:17:25 AM (4401 views)
Re: Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Lori Cassidy/CT
10/2/2007 8:59:43 PM (3837 views)
Re: Titlesearch USA -- anybody have input? - Nina Gladen/OH
11/15/2007 1:22:02 PM (3324 views)

National Title Net - Kristi Lee/NE
10/1/2007 4:17:28 PM (3036 views)
Re: National Title Net - Kevin Ahern/CT
10/1/2007 5:34:29 PM (4161 views)
Re: National Title Net - Kristi Lee/NE
10/1/2007 5:47:03 PM (4264 views)
Re: National Title Net - Sandra Morton/KS
10/1/2007 6:27:53 PM (3967 views)

WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Scott Perry/PA
9/29/2007 3:00:27 PM (3099 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/29/2007 3:37:00 PM (4217 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - STEVE MEINECKE/VA
9/29/2007 4:18:21 PM (4067 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Scott Perry/PA
9/29/2007 6:16:35 PM (3866 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Wendi See/SC
9/29/2007 6:28:56 PM (3842 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Scott Perry/PA
9/29/2007 10:35:56 PM (3939 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Wendi See/SC
9/29/2007 11:47:18 PM (4003 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - David Jenkins/PA
9/30/2007 3:57:53 PM (3799 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Cheryl O'Brien/VA
10/15/2007 11:25:39 AM (3271 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Jay Duncan/MO
9/30/2007 10:23:31 PM (3754 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Vikki Moffitt/GA
10/1/2007 6:41:42 PM (3920 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Alix Ott/MI
10/1/2007 10:27:31 AM (3665 views)
First, as an ex-legal secretary, I urge you NOT to get lawyers involved!  (I would say "under any circumstances", but sometimes it's necessary.)  The only one who will come out ahead is the lawyer.  Next, I would CALL these two abstractors and ask them why they're saying this (in a calm, cool, matter-of-fact tone).  One of three things is going to happen:  They're going to lie and say they didn't do it at all, they're going to lie and apologize and say they really didn't think you DID search other courts and try to explain why they're talking about you to your client, or they're going to tell the truth and say they really didn't think you searched other courts and apologize.

This lets them know that you know what's going on (and don't appreciate it) and you could end the conversation with a gentle threat, something like "I really cannot afford outsiders liabling my company...I hope you understand.  This really has to stop or I'll have to take some other action." 

I think if you get too confrontational or express too much anger (even tho justified) you'll serve to add fuel to the fire.  Instead of scaring them, you'll get them vengeful.  I know this seems like you're the one backing down, but remember that YOU'RE the one who is now holding all the cards and once they realize that, this will stop and never start up again.

Alix
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Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Jason Sheppard/PA
10/1/2007 4:43:49 PM (3707 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Jason Sheppard/PA
10/1/2007 4:48:56 PM (3773 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Scott Perry/PA
10/6/2007 2:50:41 PM (3186 views)
Re: WWYD (What would YOU do)? - Rebecca Fisher/FL
2/8/2008 9:15:32 PM (2954 views)

End of the Slump - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/27/2007 3:01:37 PM (3284 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Robert Franco/OH
9/27/2007 3:17:31 PM (3388 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Patrick Scott/IL
9/27/2007 6:04:53 PM (3232 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Jay Duncan/MO
9/27/2007 3:19:37 PM (3231 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Jessica Talley/NJ
9/27/2007 7:07:09 PM (3324 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Scott Perry/PA
9/27/2007 9:03:08 PM (3323 views)
Re: End of the Slump - David Jenkins/PA
9/28/2007 8:46:58 AM (3347 views)
Re: End of the Slump - john franz/NJ
10/1/2007 1:59:51 PM (3445 views)
Re: End of the Slump - Alix Ott/MI
10/1/2007 3:07:31 PM (3339 views)

Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Jay Duncan/MO
9/26/2007 1:51:16 PM (3161 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/26/2007 2:07:48 PM (3290 views)
A little warped humor - Bobbi Shorthouse, Notary Public/CT
9/26/2007 2:53:48 PM (3594 views)
Re: A little warped humor - STEVE MEINECKE/VA
9/26/2007 4:42:53 PM (3657 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - mason haas/NY
9/28/2007 10:16:42 AM (3393 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Jay Duncan/MO
9/28/2007 10:53:08 AM (3446 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/28/2007 11:12:52 AM (5216 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Jay Duncan/MO
9/28/2007 11:46:19 AM (3614 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - mason haas/NY
9/28/2007 12:02:53 PM (3573 views)
Re: Fee Reductions Anger Abstractors, Examiners...Article from The Title Report - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/28/2007 12:42:08 PM (3662 views)

A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/26/2007 5:57:49 AM (2982 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Loretta Reed/MD
9/26/2007 8:47:19 AM (3176 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/26/2007 10:24:02 AM (3205 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Scott Perry/PA
9/26/2007 10:19:34 AM (3176 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Robert Franco/OH
9/26/2007 10:51:45 AM (3182 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Scott Perry/PA
9/26/2007 11:14:10 AM (3263 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Kurt deVries/FL
9/26/2007 2:25:19 PM (3391 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/26/2007 2:54:31 PM (3414 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/26/2007 2:58:38 PM (3397 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Jay Duncan/MO
9/26/2007 3:23:33 PM (3490 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Wendi See/SC
9/26/2007 3:25:57 PM (3171 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Wendi See/SC
9/26/2007 3:40:52 PM (3331 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/26/2007 5:01:35 PM (3335 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Wanda Steudel/OH
9/26/2007 5:59:51 PM (3292 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/26/2007 8:43:00 PM (3376 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/26/2007 7:31:23 PM (3272 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Loretta Reed/MD
9/26/2007 9:32:00 PM (3130 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Barbara Bennett/IN
9/26/2007 10:42:05 PM (2997 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Anita Backlund/MN
9/27/2007 2:35:27 PM (3057 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - David Chisolm/MS
9/27/2007 8:28:50 PM (3096 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - marilyn snyder/FL
9/28/2007 12:58:50 PM (3466 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Anita Backlund/MN
10/1/2007 10:16:35 PM (3563 views)
Re: A little frustrated here this a.m. - Joanie Hahr/VT
10/1/2007 5:06:36 PM (3546 views)

Gallows Humor? - Kevin Ahern/CT
9/25/2007 2:37:07 PM (6060 views)
Re: Gallows Humor? - Wanda Steudel/OH
9/25/2007 3:09:06 PM (3067 views)
Re: Gallows Humor? - Anita Backlund/MN
9/25/2007 6:00:13 PM (3125 views)
Re: Gallows Humor? - Vikki Moffitt/GA
10/4/2007 5:19:20 PM (3008 views)
Re: Gallows Humor? - Scott Perry/PA
10/4/2007 5:53:47 PM (3069 views)


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