Kudos Anita, you are a real American!! I tell my kids that I never want to hear them say " It's not fair" because life isn't fair. I tell them that Mom and Dad worked hard for everything that they have, it wasn't handed to them. You also appreciate things more when you work hard for them. Why is that our tax money pays to rehab government housing every 3-4 years? Happens in Tampa all the time. My kids also know that they are very blessed to be able to do the things they do. I have never nor do I now envy folks who have more than me. They have worked for that, good for them. It just makes me want to work harder.........to retire sooner!! LOL.