Thanks Robert that has been my thinking. 

Scott - you have my respect!

It is also important to realize that 'they' can post as well.  We can have all the proof in the world and be solidly in the right, but so many people that use the internet as an information source fail to reaserch what they read and verify accuracy.  Even were someone to research a particular senario, it often comes down to 'he said - she said'.